20 Years Is Enough: Accept Vietnam 1994


Copyright 1994 Newsday. Inc
Newsday
October 6, 1994, Thursday, ALL EDITIONS
SECTION: VIEWPOINTS; Pg A41
LENGTH: 765 words
HEADLINE: 20 Years Is Enough: Accept Vietnam

BYLINE: Jim Laurie
"Jim Laurie is an ABC News foreign correspondent based in London who covered the Vietnam War and has returned there many times since."

BODY:

IT'S ABOUT TIME. Before the end of this year, the Clinton Administration will establish a full diplomatic liaison office in Hanoi and the government of Vietnam will do the same in the old South Vietnamese embassy in Washington. This symbolic end to conflict between the United States and Vietnam comes on the eve of the 20th anniversary of the Communist takeover of Saigon and the defeat of the American-backed government there.

Twenty years. I remember it as if it were yesterday. I stood on the street in front of the U.S. embassy on the morning of April 30, 1975, filming the last American Marine helicopter as it lifted from the roof. The desperate evacuation, mass confusion, the sense of America's humiliation, the tears of panic on the faces of hundreds of Vietnamese left indelible impressions. Remaining in Vietnam for the next 26 days, I watched as Communist North Vietnamese troops moved in and ever so slowly consolidated heir control over the south.

It has taken 20 difficult years to come to grips with the realities of American defeat and the establishment of a regime that represented much that Americans found repugnant.

For the first 11 years, the government of the unified Vietnam pursued harsh policies. It stalled on the search of American solider missing in action. It imposed on its people forced collectivization in industry and agriculture. It carried out arbitrary seizures of property and sent thousands to re-education camps, precipitating an enormous exodus. It began a military occupation of Cambodia.

When Vietnam began in 1987 to change its ways - to prove more cooperative on MIA's; adopt a policy of "Doi Moi," or economic liberalization; accept private property rights; welcome back the "Viet Kieu" (overseas Vietnamese who had left), and pull back from Cambodia - the United States was slow to  respond. Now it finally has.

In the last 20 years, I have traveled back to Vietnam a dozen times. I have seen Americans and Vietnamese alike trying to blot our the pain, trying to put the war and its consequences behind them.

The United States' pre-occupation with the MIA issue prolonged agony for hundreds of American families and created bizarre behavior among desperate Vietnamese who sought to barter freedom for information (often false) about U.S. soldiers.

In 1987, while on a visit to Saigon, I was suddenly presented by a Vietnamese I knew with a large sack of human bones, a U.S. Air Force dog tag and information about a "newly discovered" crash site dating to 1968.
The man wanted passage out of Vietnam, which, of course, I could not provide.

The bones were examined in Honolulu, but nothing could be determined, but nothing could be determined from them. Imprints of the same "dog tags" had been turned over to U.S. officials two years earlier. The case of the 1968 crash had been closed years before, all casualties accounted for. I had established nothing except the knowledge that  information about American MIAs was a morbid but valuably traded commodity in Vietnam.

Although the pain of American losses in Vietnam is great, the pain of the much greater losses among Vietnamese on both the winning and losing sides must be greater. No one forgets the past, but most Vietnamese I know have put it behind them. They have picked themselves up and built on new realities with a pragmatic zeal.

When I traveled to Vietnam in 1979 and 1980, old South Vietnamese friends refused to see me, fearing reprisals. Many later managed to escape. 

Yet, in 1991, I accompanied a group of Vietnamese friends from California back to Vietnam to visit their families. Some had fled only five years earlier. They were surprised to find a more open society than the one they left.

Being married to a Vietnamese-born woman has allowed me to see Vietnam's pain at close hand. To escape arrest as a "capitalist war supporter," my father-in-law, a wealthy businessman, went into hiding in the dense forests of the central highlands for nearly nine years. He lost all his wealth to Communist confiscation. Still in Vietnam today, he urges his son to set up business in the new Vietnam that now encourages private enterprise.

My wife's sister died a painful death from hunger and malaria on a desolate island in Indonesia after fleeing Vietnam in 1987. Another sister fled to the Philippines the following year and remained in a refugee camp there until she was forcibly repatriated in 1993. Today she lives happily in Saigon, has suffered no reprisals and the family acknowledges that her flight was a mistake.

Although some Vietnamese-Americans oppose normalization with Vietnam, most do not. Thousands of Vietnamese-Americans travel to Vietnam each year. The end of the U.S. trade embargo has prompted among them a rush to invest. Asked why Vietnamese seem to put the past behind them more easily than native-born Americans, a Vietnamese friend says "You Americans can't stand defeat. You're used to being winners. We're used to defeat and struggle. Besides Vietnam was our home."

A practiced Vietnamese diplomat is often asked how he feels to have won a war against America .It is a question he carefully dodges. "No one won the war," he says. "We can win only now by building on peace with Americans and Vietnamese together."


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